Celine writes, “I love my breasts. I wish they would remain big and perky forever but I know I’m getting older so they are getting droopy now. I want to get in shape so I look good for my age, so I can be attractive to men to look at me and notice I’m alive. It hurts to see my friends get hit on and not me because they have smaller breasts and have nicer shape and I’m bigger than them. Guys ignore me. Help me please!”
I know how scary it is to see the signs of aging. I am glad that you accept that you are aging rather than being in denial about it, because it is much better to be realistic. Now, as you probably know very well, getting in shape is something that takes a lot of time. If you have questions about fitness, ask me separately, but I am assuming that you are focusing on eating fewer calories and doing some exercises. Let me say this: as you lose weight, your breasts will sag even more and might even shrink in size. So they might look somewhat more proportionate for your body size, but they might sag more than you would like them to.
So obviously, after you are done with your weight loss, an easy solution would be a combination of breast implants and breast lift, and then you would look as if you were in your teens, but if that is not an option, I suggest that you focus more on your style and appearance. I am shocked to find out that so many women do not realize the importance of well-fitted, stylish clothes (they don’t have to be expensive or branded or even the latest fashion), particularly cute brassieres in attracting men. In addition, a big smile and approachable personality helps a great deal as well. So I am not totally convinced that guys are ignoring you just because of your breasts. And I am no fan of men who judge a woman only by her chest.