You sure have married the wrong man who objects to how you look after marrying you. Did he not see your skin color before marriage? Or that you are a skinny woman with small breasts! If I were you, I will file for annulment of this marriage right away. He does not deserve to be your husband. A man who is giving you such a hard time for how Nature made you, is not going to make you happier the rest of your life. You have a lot of thinking to do and you have definitely married a very shallow man who does not love the person YOU but is more focused on your the skin color and breast size.

Regarding your skin color in the privates, well, the reality is that the color in that area for both men and women is always somewhat darker than the rest of the body and the way you cannot whiten your skin anywhere else in a significant way, you can’t change its color in your private area (some skin bleaching procedures claim to do so but the safety of these procedures is under serious doubt). Just keep it nice and clean that is all you can do. The area can get darker and have stretch marks after childbirth and massaging with baby oil will help it have a more uniform color for longer.

And when your husband talks about your color down there, you can also tell him that you are disappointed by his penis size and expected it be pink rather than dark. Honestly, I am not joking. Tell him that you are disappointed by his inability to make love and feel that he does not satisfy you. Also mention that he ejaculates prematurely before you even orgasm and he must get better at lovemaking first. That will completely shut him up.

Regarding bigger breasts, the only solution that definitely works is breast augmentation and ask him to pay for it.

Be strong and fight for your rights. I am sorry to hear that this man is abusive so soon after the wedding.

I have absolutely no respect for men who threaten to leave their wives because of their breast size. I mean did he not know this when he married you. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a man who loves breasts and not YOU. What is the guarantee that he will love you forever and not a stripper with even bigger, fake implants?

Dorothy, the only way for you to have large breasts is through breast augmentation. Brava is an expensive procedure that grows breasts by just one cup size after a long, expensive and painful process. The good news is that Brava works and Brava was found to be safe and effective. That is why it is not very popular. Ask him to pay for breast augmentation.

But I strongly suggest that you first deal with your husband and the real problems in your marriage than to consider surgery because something is really weird about this man — he definitely has no respect for women in general, his wife in particular, and does not care about his children that he is casually willing to abandon them. Trust me, if he leaves, you can easily find a man who likes small breasts.

He is suggesting that drinking too much soy milk led to growth of male breasts. Apparently soy milk has a lot of estrogen and that can cause feminine characteristics to develop in males. It has been proven that soy foods lower sperm count in men.

The lesson to remember is that excess of anything is bad and that is what he was doing, drinking up to 12 cups of milk a day. You don’t have to give up your soy consumption in form of tofu or milk as long as you eat it in small amounts. In case you already have them, then moob surgery is an option.

“No question about it: small breasts are always more attractive than large breasts. Unfortunately, large breasts almost always reduce a woman to that one physical attribute. Small breasts lead to a more complete appreciation of all aspects of a woman.

Look at the rest of the world. I don’t think any other country has the same bizarre obsession with size as does the US. It’s something I’ve never understood. Perhaps it’s a reverse Oedipal thing because my mother had large, unattractive breasts and, as a result, I’ve always found women with small breasts (and large hips and large intellects) incredibly desirable. I mean, c’mon, really. Who would you rather spend a long, engaging evening with: Julianne Moore or Pamela Anderson?”

At this time, the gummy bear implants are not approved by the FDA. As your research says they are a much better alternative (better shape retention at all times) but still in the clinical trial phase. In other words, if you have the option to wait (while it may happen fairly soon but no one really knows; they might not be approved also in case their safety is in doubt), then just see what happens. If not, you might have to have corrective surgery, preferably with another surgeon, because your last plastic surgeon definitely did not do a good job