Do men like small breasts?
Several months ago I reproduced an email I received from a teenager who wrote why she was proud of her small breasts. I have now heard from a man who is providing a male perspective on exactly the same topic (Related: What do men think of small breasted women). Here it is:
Being a reasonably sane and average male, I thought that your female readers might appreciate my perspective on some of the issues related to breast size. To be clear about this from the start, while these are my personal opinions, I think that I speak for a large portion of the male population. However, I have not conducted any formal or even informal surveys. Not all men agree with me on these points, but be assured that a great many do indeed.
The media in our present culture places considerable emphasis on breast size. In my opinion, though, it’s all a matter of proportion. When I see a woman with a Dolly Parton build, I form an image in my mind of those inflatable punching dolls which bounce back up again after every punch. In a sense, it’s comical to me. I see disproportion, which I won’t go so far as to say is ugly, but it’s not particularly attractive. Within limits, the human body is a beautiful well-proportioned work of art.
What I find most attractive are smoothly blended body curves. It’s not so much about size or shape. After all, people come in all manner of sizes and shapes. I have difficulty appreciating some of the extremes. Bulimics, for example have a certain ghastly appeal, but understanding why any woman would go to such measures in the name of beauty is beyond me. There is such a thing as plump, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but, sorry gals, obesity is over the edge.
There are some body modifications which can be very hot. Most any piercing is welcome, but don’t get too carried away with it. If you have 20 earrings and a half dozen nose, lip and eyebrow rings, well, that’s a bit overdone. Piercings in private places are definite turn ons. The same goes for tattoos. Try to keep everything within the flow of your normal body curves.
I can’t imagine why any woman, with the exception of breast cancer survivors, would opt for implants. It would not turn on me on much, knowing that there were sponges or jelly bags inside some girl’s body. I’m referring to elective issues here, not medical necessities. Girls, if you are reading this, and have considered implants because you think that you are too small, consider this. Big breasts will sag, if they have not already done so. Small ones are much less likely to do so.
When big breasts sag, the skin folds over which captures sweat (excuse me, perspiration). Not so attractive. So much for smoothly blended curves, eh? Proportion, proportion, proportion! Petite, firm, and perky? Much more attractive than big, droopy and sagging. If you have small breasts, consider yourselves lucky. As the years roll by, they will be better able to defy the inevitable gravity. This is a good thing. Don’t fight it. (Related: How to look sexy if I have small breasts)
If you really want to tease men, consider going braless. I’m sure that you all know this by now, but dark colors cast no shadows. In other words, if you expect your “bright lights” to be noticed, you need to wear light, snug fitting clothes. That drives men crazy. Trust me, it will not matter what size you are. Be prepared for lots of attention. Try wearing a tight elastic blouse which nicely hugs all your curvy parts, then cover it with something loose, like a vest or open shirt. By leaning, gesturing, and so on, you can control your exposure. You know what I’m talking about. This is a mind 
bending tease. Makes men drool. Add some clever cutouts to that tight blouse, which expose some skin here and there, but don’t give it all away at once. You’ll kill ‘em.
It has been said about men that they have two brains, one in each head. Perhaps not too far from true. Girls, that is not the case with your brain – you only have one and that too where it should be. Stop worrying about size and use your brains to flaunt whatever you have to best advantage.
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