Erin writes, “My girl friend has D cup size breasts and I have 36A. Whenever we go anywhere I always end up feeling ugly because all the guys end up liking her and I wonder is it because she has bigger breasts than me or something else. I’m not mean to any of them.”
Now remember that it is not so simple. Not all men are drawn to big breasts, and in any case, if the girl is not fun or friendly, the attention is short-lived. If all women with big breasts were beautiful and all women with small breasts were ugly, the world would be a different place. Pamela Anderson and Denise Richards will be running Fortune 500 companies and the US Government and married to the richest men, and girls with small breasts will be mopping the floors and be married to losers. You know that the real world is nothing like that.
So first of all, get this idea out of your head that you are ugly simply because you have a small chest. Having said that, it is also a time to reflect on other things. The second thing is style. So many men have told me that a well-dressed woman is more attractive (regardless of cup size) than a slob. The third factor is attitude. Everyone loves fun, warm, friendly, positive people around. Trust me no one cares how big your breasts are if you are nasty, ill-mannered, cynical and arrogant. The fourth factor is overall fitness. No one likes a girl that weighs 250 lbs regardless of the cup size. On the contrary, a fit girl even with A cup breasts can be stunning.
And finally, maybe you are hanging out at the wrong places. I have no respect for men that judge a woman by her breast size alone. A woman is much more than a pair of fat tissue in a certain place. She is a person with a unique personality and we should look at the whole persona that just one aspect of physical beauty. Trust me, there are lots of men that think like I do and you just have to stop hanging out with those jerks who only look at a girl’s cleavage before deciding if she is worth their time.