Kavita had an arranged marriage and within weeks of her marriage her husband is complaining that he expected her to have bigger breasts and her pubic region to be in pink color rather than the dark skin that she naturally has. “Can I make my pubic area pink somehow? What about my breasts? Please help me. I am so sad that my marriage has had such a sad beginning,” she writes.
You sure have married the wrong man who objects to how you look after marrying you. Did he not see your skin color before marriage? Or that you are a skinny woman with small breasts! If I were you, I will file for annulment of this marriage right away. He does not deserve to be your husband. A man who is giving you such a hard time for how Nature made you, is not going to make you happier the rest of your life. You have a lot of thinking to do and you have definitely married a very shallow man who does not love the person YOU but is more focused on your the skin color and breast size.
Regarding your skin color in the privates, well, the reality is that the color in that area for both men and women is always somewhat darker than the rest of the body and the way you cannot whiten your skin anywhere else in a significant way, you can’t change its color in your private area (some skin bleaching procedures claim to do so but the safety of these procedures is under serious doubt). Just keep it nice and clean that is all you can do. The area can get darker and have stretch marks after childbirth and massaging with baby oil will help it have a more uniform color for longer.
And when your husband talks about your color down there, you can also tell him that you are disappointed by his penis size and expected it be pink rather than dark. Honestly, I am not joking. Tell him that you are disappointed by his inability to make love and feel that he does not satisfy you. Also mention that he ejaculates prematurely before you even orgasm and he must get better at lovemaking first. That will completely shut him up.
Be strong and fight for your rights. I am sorry to hear that this man is abusive so soon after the wedding.