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Consequences of adultery
Adultery causes breakups and divorces

 

By Imfwama Wotela

Summary:  Adultery can cause enormous damage to a relationship and in today's world where it is so hard to find a decent relationship to destroy one's relationship by being unfaithful is just not the right thing to do.  In this series of articles, we have already discussed the consequences of adultery, what happens when one partner violates trust and becomes unfaithful, and how to deal with adultery.  In this part we discuss how adultery destroys relationships and causes break-ups/divorces.  (Related:  Life after marriage for men)

Remember in a divorce there are no winners! The victims are always the children. Imagine you have been destroyed just because of one single act of adultery. You created a broken home and end up in a court of law arguing on who should take what with your hearts filled with bitterness and pain. I can assure you it’s a mess you will have to live with the rest of your life.  (Related article:  How to respond to an affair)

Photo of a heart tied with ropes to symbolize the pain of divorceI believe if we start to think ahead before we do certain things, we will be able to brush off the idea or thought of being unfaithful. It is a very evil thing to be unfaithful in any area of life as the results are always devastating. Because of adultery people have been infected with dreadful diseases while other people have died of depression and end up losing hope and desire to try again. Worse still, others end up murdering the lover of their spouse out of jealousy and anger. Learn to be honest with yourself and your partner. Face them and tell them what you want or don’t want. Living a lie will wreck your lives. It’s because you are lacking something or just have no moral values that you decide to be unfaithful.  (Related article:  Clues of a man cheating online)

I heard of a woman who shot her husband of 30 years when he left her and decided to live with an 18 year old woman. She killed them both in cold blood and didn’t care what would happen to her.  (Related article:  Risk of infidelity)

Relationships, people’s lives, etc. are very precious things and we ought to treat them that way. Instead of being unfaithful tell your partner why you are unhappy with the relationship. Why are you ashamed to come out in the open? Is it because you know deep down in your heart that what you are doing is wrong and your conscience is speaking to you? People who chose adultery are selfish and greedy, as they want to enjoy both worlds. If it were a good thing you would not be doing it in hiding or have to lie or make excuses but because it’s not acceptable and your conscience says you are wrong, so you do it in dark, so that no one will know.  (Related:  How to get a divorce from abusive husband?)

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