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I was inspired to share my perspective on
relationships with
an Asian woman after reading about intense desire
of
one Japan fan to marry an Asian,
or more specifically a Japanese. When a person searches for
true
love, they must not have any assumptions. If you desire the pure love of an Asian woman, then you must also throw away all stereotypes that you may have about Asian women - that they are submissive, docile, naive, too eager to please, and whatever else. Since love is never expressed in a cookie-cut design, remember that your true love, the Asian woman of your dreams, who will rescue you from this abominable and inescapable trap of single white females, will perhaps be
un-accepting of your previous judgments and stereotypes you have come to know and believe.
Just so I am perfectly clear, I have
dated American
women, and they are wonderful human beings for whom I have no ill feelings whatsoever. That previous statement about the trap of single white females was merely an exaggeration of the impression I received from your comments on American females. As I was taught, assumptions and stereotypes can destroy a relationship and sometimes prevent them before they even begin. I learned it was not fair for me to say that every Asian woman I date will be exactly as the first love in my life, who was indeed Asian. Perhaps I am speaking of things you have already come to understand, and I have no intentions of insulting your intelligence, or that any American females either. True love comes with complete
honesty and open heart. And the only word of
advice which I still have failed to completely grasp is that any woman - Asian, American, Latvian, etc., hates to hear about your past relationships. Women in general never like it when you bring up an ex. In rare cases, a few may accept it as an opening up. Yeah, I know what I just said may sound like a generalization, but wouldn't you also dislike hearing about a girl's ex-boyfriend(s)? Maybe not, but...that goes without saying...don't generalize either.
In no way am I the perfect male. I do my best to reveal who I am and being honest with the one I love, and at the same time, be honest with myself. You are well on the path of finding and understanding true love. I commend you greatly for writing your experiences as you have. It relates to many, many, many men out there who do not have the courage to come out and
have their own life written out on a website such as yourself. I happen to be one of those men. I wish you the best of luck in find your true love. Never let anyone change your opinion or preferences and ideas on what you know will make your life complete. Always follow your heart as you have been. I too am a fellow lover of Asian culture, cuisine, and most importantly, the miracle of God's most
precious creation - Asian Women.
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