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Women attracted to much older men

There is nothing wrong with it

Brandy writes, "I know that the hottest trend right now is mature women dating younger men, but what if the age thing is switched around? I am 21 and I have never liked guys my own age...and now that I am an adult the men I seem to be attracted to are sometimes much older than me. Well, like the guy I am sort of seeing he is 40. Is that OK or is it too old? I guess I am confused about what is OK and what is not; like maybe there is something wrong with me."

Generally speaking there is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men. In fact, it was a fact of life in the past. Older men have always married much younger women and everything has worked out pretty well. However, if you are attracted to them because you seek a father figure (many girls who grew up with single moms or have found that men their age do not want to commit or lack intellectual capacity to interact on an equal basis often find that they match better with more experienced men), then there is something to think about - not that it is a problem as such, but it is not a bad idea to ponder why you like being with people in a different age bracket.

There is another issue to deal with when you date someone who is 20 years older. Would you like to have children? Then a big age gap matters not only from the standpoint of health but also about raising children. Like many modern women, you may want to wait to get pregnant at 5-7 years, but by that time, he may not be at his best age to be a father.

In my opinion, the best way for most people to experience life is to be with someone within their age bracket. That way you have common experiences. However, what is more important is compatibility. There are 40 year old men with the brain of a teenager and there are 20-year olds who can intellectually engage a much older woman.

The other thing is compatibility. If you find it with a persona of whatever age, go for it, as was the case for Cindy. She writes, "I am 33 and my boyfriend is 59, and this is the most wonderful relationship I have ever been in. The sex is great, the communication is great, and our time spent together is wonderful. I have dated men my age and younger and I can tell you from my experience that this man is the best. I was married for 11 years to a man who was horrible to me and our children and still is today but I have a new life now with this man who knows how to treat women and I love it. I think women should give older men a try."

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