I am
afraid the young man I am describing, despite having
social anxiety disorder might be a
high autistic or Asperger's as it is now called. He
is very introverted and I am very extroverted; so I
think that was my main attraction to him when we met was
that he could talk to me and was not
shy and he was my tenant for some time, although not
now.
He eventually wants to
meet a young woman,
fall in love and
have
children but it is not happening. He has a good
degree and manages a job in which he is underachieving
but because of his condition he finds it hard to get one
that suits his academic skills. He is tall, very
handsome with large cornflower blue eyes, surrounded by
thick eyelashes, dark
blond
hair and a figure
to die for, plus added to all
this, an interesting aquiline profile.
He is really funny, understanding and very supportive of
me. He does not express himself well normally but now
finds that not too difficult when we are together. I
think he does
find me attractive but we have both agreed that we
can only
be friends. This all started when he moved out as my
tenant and found his own apartment and asked my help to
decorate it and find
furniture,
carpets,
etc. Since then he has kept in regular touch with me,
but I do think sometimes that it is just because he does
not handle change well.
He is coming on holiday with me for four days but we are
having separate rooms.
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I agree with you that for me
now life is short and if this gives me pleasure,
which it does, then I should go for it although
I realize that I will lose him soon either to
another woman or because the relationship goes
over to something more. I suppose to take one
day at a time and consider myself really lucky
that I have such a nice and loyal friend and
companion when many women of my age do not have
anyone when they are either
divorced or widowed. |
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