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Patricia,
a 21-year old with a 1-year old baby, writes, "I don't
know what to do but my
boyfriend always cams on the Net with
strangers while he is
never intimate with me. I have caught him doing this
on many occasions. When
he
does not want to have sex with me he makes me feel
so
ugly. He also often yells at me. Is there a way to
know
if he is cheating on me? What can I do? He
also kicked me out for 2 weeks and he was saying that he
is happy by himself. He is also the kind of guy that
makes me do everything for him, and I mean everything,
and his excuse is that he works and I don't. Please
help."
My
best guess is that your boyfriend is
addicted to porn and
sex with strangers. By
not having sex with you and mistreating you (by
making you
feel ugly, for example), he is basically trying to
drive you out of your life. He
is
abusing you and trying to have you as a
maid while he indulges in an
exciting life online.
It is time for you to have a serious chat with him to
figure out if you two have a
future together. I think you have to let him know
that the current arrangement is not going to last. He
either needs to have a
normal relationship with you and
be a responsible father or you will have no choice
but to
leave him.
I don't think it would serve any purpose if you were to
get
solid evidence of his cheating. It can be fairly
easy to collect it but trying to
confront him is not going to solve the problem. What
will you do with that evidence?
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