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Erica
writes, "My
husband is a great loving guy but he is gone a lot
because he is in the military. I don't want to
cheat but physically, emotionally, and mentally I am
going crazy. There is a man at work that is very
interesting to talk to, is not married, but he is always
talking and flirting with me. I really enjoy
his company and I know he would be there if I
need a
lover. What should I do? Go with my feelings or
suffer every day?"
I know exactly how you feel. I have been in
long distance relationships and some point you have
to take care of the hormones.
Masturbation only does so much.
I am generally
supportive of cheating in such cases provided you do
it with a guy who will be discreet and you won't get
emotional with him. You definitely do not want to
ruin your marriage with this wonderful man. I know
that this guy that you talk about is your
colleague
so if he opens his mouth at work, it will be public news
in no time. What I am trying to tell you is that you
should think about these issues before
having sex with him; if not, there are other ways to
find a reliable, discreet,
sex partner (married
men are better because they also have a secret to
hide). |
