Lou
writes, "I have had a
crush on a
much older woman (who is in an ON/OFF relationship
with a man that she lives with) for months and this
morning I decided to tell her the truth about how I feel
about her. I called her to have
coffee at a local Starbucks to "talk" about
something important. Obviously she was curious and
agreed. We met up and talked a little about small stuff
until I felt ready about 20 minutes or so. I finally
gathered enough courage to bring up the subject and so I
told her everything. She was shocked, she knew I liked
her but only as a friend. She had no idea that I wanted
more. I then told her how she felt about me she started
to cry and told me that she felt the same way and wanted
to be with me but she was concerned about our
significant
age difference and didn't know that I felt the
same, so she never said anything. She then proceeded to
tell me that some time this week her
boyfriend proposed to her; luckily for me she told
him she needed time to think about. The way things stand
right now, she's in love with me -- that much is
confirmed but with her
boyfriend having just proposed it made things a lot
more complicated. After I told her how I felt about her
she said to me that she loved me even more and is
willing to
break up with her current boyfriend to be with me.
Needless to say I'm very happy but at the same time she
knows he's going to kick her out once they
break
up and she'll have
nowhere to live. Suffice to say we both don't know
what to do.
You did it as a brave man and she opened her heart to
you because that is the truth.
Now here is what you both need to do. Is there a way
that she can
move in
with you and your parents? I mean you have to tell
your parents now or later that this is the
woman you love and it is better to tell them now
rather than later. I think it would be unethical for her
to stay with the other man, who she plans to leave
anyway, especially that he is so serious that he has
proposed.
You have already taken care of the most
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