It seems that both
of you have realized your earlier mistakes and it is time to
undo the damage. Having said that, your
reaction to
divorce is very normal - those are the
emotions most people go through. They start to doubt the
value of a
marriage since the
trauma of a divorce is just too much.
In your case, I
hope that both of you realize is that
marriage is not as important as being together. My
recommendation is that if you are not absolutely positive,
there is no
reason to marry. If your
relationship is solid, a
wedding ring makes no difference. Maybe 6 months later you
will feel that you want to spend the rest of your life with
this man. Who knows, maybe you will feel that you found him to
be what your
ex-husband was not, but he is still not the man that you
should spend your life with. At this time, unless he insists
on an answer, let him know that you are confused and do not
want to marry right now. You may change your mind later. If he
truly loves you, he will be fine with that. If he insists on
marriage at this point, it is fine to still say no because you
do not want to
marry when you are in doubt. Remember that he is 44 and
may want to marry soon but you are still very young. You have
a lot to look forward to. Yes, there are a lot of bad men out
there but there are also a lot of good men too - in case you
miss this one, you WILL
find another good man.
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