I am frustrated with my married boyfriend

He does not have time for me

Summary: A married woman dating another married man finds that they simply cannot spend enough time together and that makes it very painful for both of them.

Allison, a married woman with children is dating a married man in similar situation. Since they cannot be together, they both get frustrated very often and that leads to arguments and fights. In a previous consultation with her, I had suggested that she simply end this extramarital affair and either try to save her marriage or get a divorce so that she can be with a man that she loves and not be miserable with a husband that she no longer loves. Apparently the bond between the two love birds is so strong that they can't let each other go either. She writes, "Yes, I can't let him go just like that because maybe I've loved him to deep for too long. He says that he also can't let me go. I've never even asked him for anything; whatever he does for me it's from his own thoughts. But now he keep on scolding me. Every time he calls, he is accusing me for all the mistakes he does. Am I the one to be blamed?"

I think he is probably as frustrated as you are with the arrangement -- you both love each other but cannot be together. I think his scolding is merely his frustration coming out. In my opinion, you both need to make decisions. I am someone who always advises people to take decisions and then stick to them. This sort of indecision is painful and slowly kills people.

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