cheating on her husband with a
guy who has strong feelings for her but is not
leaving his family behind and
marry her. She is struggling to
breakup with him and/or
divorce her husband so that she can decide
what to do with her life. She writes, "I have
decided to only be
friends with my ex-lover. And that's only because he
is a great person and we were friends before all of this
happened. I know that
things are not going to work between my husband and
I because I am to the point where I hate for him to even
touch me. I've been making all kinds of excuses for
the last few months just to keep him from wanting or
anything about sex. That's when I realized the
problem was more than just me
having an affair. Even though I know I'll never be
guy I cheated with and I'm really not sure it would
work if we could be together long term, I know I'm not
with my husband. The thing is I just don't know
how to end. Maybe I'm just too scared to end it.
Because he is a great provider and a very loving person.
women would love to have him. I'm just not the
person for him."
have two suggestions.