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 A
woman today is
more liberal with her body and sassier than women of past generations
and is more likely to take the initiative
in seducing a man.
However, this does not mean that they are all having great private life. In
fact both men and women are complaining that they are not
getting enough intimacy. According to Dr. Andres Atwood, there are as many as 17 million
married
men and women in the United States that have none to minimal
intimacy. (Related article: Without
great time in bed, couples may destroy their relationship)
Today's
men are not content with a
docile woman in their bed.
If a woman
wants to be considered good, she has to demonstrate more
confidence and also show that she has experience. While men in the
past may have appreciated ignorant women, but the men of present
time
want their partner to be equally competent.
Most men
today are beginning to demand intimacy more often. While
their fore-fathers spent more time outside the home considering that it
was unmanly to be close to their family, modern man is more of a
family-man. As a woman then, it is important to appreciate
this new reality. Here are some great kamasutra
inspired tips. (Related article: How
naughty women please their men?)
Don't
be shy
Most men are for
it. Don’t always wait for them to feel that they are the only one who
want it. Today, most men do not want a woman to submit herself
for the sake of their pleasure. Generally, they expect a
little more enthusiasm and participation. No
wonder that women who demonstrate the desire seem so much more desirable simply because they
have the confidence to show it. (Related article: Tips
on getting rid of shyness)
Prolong the pleasure
The average
duration of an intimate encounter is six minutes. On the other hand, women
generally require 15-20 minutes to be fully ready. The woman can do
a lot to prolong the pleasure for her partner and, as a result, for
her. By cooling the game when she feels that it’s moving too
fast – a gentle little word, slower breath, a break or a change in
rhythm – this could suffice to distract. A lot of women tend
to make a lot of noise which men like but it also makes them so much
more excited, and hence, a shorter holding time. The woman has to
make a delicate tradeoff between showing off her pleasure and prolonging
the pleasure.
Wear some exciting lingerie
Most males are
stimulated by smell – you are not wrong to spend fortunes on fragrance – but also get excited by looking.
80
percent of men prefer silk underwear as opposed to 20 percent who go for
the plain white cotton stuff. Change the lingerie.Push-up
bras,
matching sets, corsets,
negligees,T-backs, kimonos,body
suits, boxers,garters, fishnet
stockings; whatever you like. A man loves it when you make him see all
the colors, sizes and shapes.
The
surprise
When
done at fixed days
or fixed hours quickly becomes monotonous. This is a real problem when a man's life is so strongly controlled by work.
Men
have all kinds of fantasies: with a nurse, cowgirl,
flight attendant, etc. It works out perfectly if the woman behaves shamelessly
once in a while – especially if she usually isn’t. Seduction
is the key to an exciting life.
Do
not hold back
Just show it as
you feel. We have been traditionally told to be neutral and
that affects our behavior in bed. Stop making mechanical love, just
for the heck of it, without really desiring it, without conviction. So
bring out the wild side. Do things that you may not be doing on a
regular basis. Try it in unusual places and there is nothing wrong with
trying unusual things too.
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