Andrea
writes, "The guy I've been seeing for the last 3 years
has 5 kids: 3 by his
ex wife,
one from a
one night stand, and one from his last girlfriend.
He was still with the last one when we started seeing
each other. Not only does he have
too many
kids, he doesn't have his
own place, his
car is broken down
and he doesn't
make enough money to be able to help me out when I
need it, but he seems to think we can make it. We've
been back and forth a few times,
mainly because I know him and he's comfortable. The
sex is good, also. I don't see a future for us, but
I'm leery about
meeting
someone new. Help!"
Trust me, you WILL
meet
someone new and better if you look in the right
place. And chances are
sex will be good too.
So much as I support
families
and love
kids, but what this dude is looking for is a
nanny and he seems to think you are the one. And he
doesn't even have to pay her. Even worse he might expect
you to come up with the
house, the
car,
and the
money to buy everything that the
kids and the whole family need. In other words you
are
dating a loser.
So
breakup with this loser and run away from him as
fast as you can and get out of your comfort zone. Invest
in a few
nice set of clothes, buy a couple of
pairs of high heels,
put some
makeup on and
start dating again. This time
find someone that is looking for a lover and not a
nanny. |
