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My married friend is flirting with me
Is she interested in me?
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Summary: If we had the
freedom, we all will
flirt, all the time. While
flirting may appear to be harmless fun, the fact is that
anyone who is flirting is indirectly sending a strong
signal of availability and
desire, even if both people
are
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Jeff, a
married man, has realized that a married family friend
has been been flirting with him all this
time. He did
not conclude that was the case because he never expected
that a happily married woman would hit on a happily
married men (Related:
How to start an affair), especially when their families knew each
other well. He writes, "I think this woman is naturally
a flirt. But she will only target guys that are very
athletic,
masculine,
slim and
fit. I’m very fit myself,
I’m very athletic, broad/wide shoulders, pumped up chest
and have 6 pack abs. Her husband is on the heavy side
with big belly -- it looks like he drinks a lot of beer
and eats a lot. They look like a
mismatched couple. I think she’s just
playing games and leading
men on; right? Or do you think she really
wants a fling
with me?"
Actually all women like
good looking, masculine,
athletic guys. While some will resist the temptation
because of religious beliefs or personal values, others
will simply do what they feel like. She appears to
belong to the second category.
Flirting is a great way for a woman to feel her
feminine
power over men and feel wanted, it is also the way women
eventually
find their partners. And I think you are on
her list of targets; otherwise she wouldn't flirt with
you. I also think that you are more aggressively being
pursued by her because you guys already know each other
and can make it all happen without much effort, while
maintaining confidentiality. When it comes to having an
extramarital relationship, women still choose
someone
that they know well and can trust, rather than a random
stranger, who will spill the beans at the drop of a hat. |
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