My boyfriend refuses sex

I like to be wanted by him

Summary: Below is the sad story of a fairly young woman whose boyfriend is no longer interested in being intimate with her. She feels lonely and rejected.

Natalie writes, "My boyfriend does not want to have sex with me. He says we only need to do it once a year. He said he has so much more energy when he does not have sex with me but he still looks at porn. We have been together for 2 years and have a baby. He is 21 and I am 22. I don't want to lose him but I don't want to be where I am not wanted. Please help me."

Something is definitely not normal for your boyfriend, especially at 21. At this age, guys cannot control themselves. He is so wrong to think that he has less energy after sex. Actually, sex has been found to have many health benefits and most bodybuilders have active sex lives.

There are a few possibilities why it may be happening.

He has a genuine health condition and it is important that he visits a doctor for a medical checkup right away.
He is gay and is hiding it from you.
He is having sex with another woman and is not interested in having sex with you.
He has psychological problems, and/or childhood trauma that might have put negative feelings towards sex in his mind. He will need to consult with a psychiatrist to deal with those issues.

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