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Why is online dating not working for me?

What am I doing wrong?

Summary:  Sounds frustrating; isn't it?  All you want to do is to find just one person and you can't.  The simple reality is that unlike a job hunt, this is one search that you cannot do casually.  Finding a real, serious, meaningful relationship through the Internet requires strategy, planning, and patience.  Below are tips for women to make it happen.

 

Image of a gal in a silk nightie really short with bare legs sitting on the couch chatting on her laptop with boy friend

Monica has a problem that you wouldn't expect women to have: dating online; actually most women who try Internet dating end up getting too many responses from men that are not for them. From numerous discussions with people who have succeeded in finding a genuine relationship that even led to marriage I have concluded that dating online is efficient, fun, and easy, as long as you treat it that way.  Like dating in the good old days when you met people in bars or at parties, this too has its frustrating moments, but that is just part of life.  She writes, "I did sign up on quite a few dating sites. After waiting, I have not found the one man that I want and I just can't find the strength and the patience to sign up on even more and wait. It is tiresome and emotionally draining to me. Please help me."

I can understand your frustration with online dating. Here are some thoughts on what you can do to improve your chances:

Review your personal ad. Ask a friend or a professional to take a look. By rewording, you maybe able to attract more men. An ad is like a billboard or commercial; the more attractive it is, the more people will respond. Will you buy a product with a bad ad?

Do you have a picture with your ad? If not, add one. If you have a picture then ask a few guy friends to give you feedback. Maybe you need to include a professionally taken picture that makes you look friendly, attractive, and warm.

 

Approach men you like. There is nothing wrong with being proactive in contacting guys. It is a competitive world out there and if you sit back and wait, nothing might happen because more aggressive girls are out there hunting men online.

Do not rule out meeting guys offline. Make sure that you socialize as much as possible because meeting men in parties and other social events is still a great way to find love. So as you attend more social events, make sure that you are always looking your best and making an effort to meet new people. You never know how a casual conversation might turn into a date.

 

 

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