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Pursue a reluctant woman

Back off when you don't see results

Summary:  Below is an email exchange with a British guy who wanted to pursue a Japanese girl in London but was having difficulty touching her soul.  I told him to open his heart to her and that was possibly the only way to get a Japanese girl.  After hearing from her this is what he told me.
From my basic Japanese I can see she has to go home because of money. And she is just a friend and nothing more. I wish it could have been more but we only recently met and I don't think she really felt anything. But she has been really kind to me and has been a very good friend, and a very good teacher. My Japanese is really coming on strong for a beginner and she has given me lots of encouragement. She told me last time we were out she wanted me to meet her other friend before she goes back home to Japan. Her friend is Japanese, single and I think a little lonely like myself. And I think she wants us all to meet up before she goes. She said, "She is single like you and I want you to meet each other."

I am not particularly physically attractive but she has never (yet) told me that and has been kind to my ego throughout. I genuinely feel she is a lovely girl; I only wish I could have gotten to know better.

I can see in her letter she is paying me compliments but the Japanese she is talking is very native and beyond my dictionaries. And I can see (I think) that her mind is made up. I really need your help confirming all this and offering your advice how now to leave it so we can keep writing and stay the best of friends. And is she inviting me to become friends with her other friend.

She really enjoyed my last email and helped us talk to each other in much more detail than we have previously been able. I can understand that from her first line of this e-mail... I am learning... slowly... but I am studying and learning and have total respect for the Japanese language and a culture and a great desire to soon be able to speak it.

 
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