| Carrie
writes, "I did not
have many friends and the last couple were chased
away by my
ex-boyfriend whom I
dumped recently. I still miss him terribly.
Cannot sleep. At
church the other night the sermon was about
finding peace
and how to hold your tongue when it doesn't matter
really, what the outcome is going to be is nothing
important. I was thinking long and hard on this, but I
guess I reached my end with not saying anything to my
ex and
told him pretty nasty things that were bothering me for
months. Again, I just hope I didn't throw away something
good, because I overreacted or got mad at some trivial
thing."
If what you said bothered you for so
long, something was not right with your
ex boyfriend and it was time to tell him so. The
relationships full of doubt and ambivalence do not last
too long. Now that you have taken the next step, you are
now free to
pursue a relationship with a more compatible man.
Related:
I am finding it hard to move on after my breakup
How I
broke up with my boyfriend? |
