Jeff
writes, "I have been with my
girlfriend in bed and in the car a couple of times
and have been
 dating
this girl now for about 8 months. We got
intimate around month three. After having some
really
intense lovemaking sessions, she became less
enthusiastic and then she told me something she has been
thinking about and said that (and not to take this
offensively) I need to
learn better ways to please her, and that I am not
as good at it as I used to be. When I asked her to be
more specific, she said that she felt too weird saying
it or telling me how to. So I told her I would figure it
out. How can I know what is it that I am doing wrong?
Nothing has really changed except the time we spent.
During summer we had the time of like 4 hours to do
stuff and now we don't, but other that that not really
anything else has changed."
I guess then the conclusion is that it is the time that
is bothering her. I am guessing that you know well that
women take much longer than a man to be ready for sex
and that is why
foreplay for them is an absolute must. It could be
just cuddling, saying nice things to her,
kissing,
etc., but based on my discussions with many readers,
even an "ordinary" man can
have
extraordinary sex if he can
make
a woman reach a point of great orgasm by having the
patience to
have foreplay till she begs him to
penetrate her.
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