My younger boyfriend is reluctant to show
me off to others
I do not want to be his dirty secret
Summary: A mature woman may
have found the love of her life but he is reluctant to
proclaim her as his girl and does not want to introduce
her to anyone.
Cynthia
writes, "I have been
dating a man literally young enough
to be my son and in one area particularly we have
problems. He does not want us to be seen together in
public, or by his
work buddies (wants it confined to his
apartment) due to the
age difference and I am not
comfortable with us "hiding" our relationship. We have
talked about it and I am not sure where it is going from
here."
I see this as a huge problem. It is one thing to
hide your smoking habit from others but an altogether
different problem if you want your
partner to be secret.
It almost seems like trying to hide an
illicit
relationship. I personally would not
date a woman who
wants our relationship to be a secret.
In other words, you should be cautious about this man
because he does not have the guts to be himself but
wants to be someone else for the sake of his public
persona."
