How to attract a married woman?

I am so attracted to her

Summary: A married man hopes that by feeling loved by a married woman friend he can feel good about himself and forget his problems but as you can read below that is unlikely to happen.

Nathan, a married man with children, is attracted to another married woman. He writes, "Definitely, I don't want her to divorce her husband and marry me. In fact, last couple of years I have been so stressed out with life, not that I am unhappy with my wife or anything; we are a perfect couple. It's just the life itself. Lately, I just discovered that I am enjoying her being around me. I used to see her lot less because I never cared. I would skip the parties or the family gatherings but now I am not skipping them because I am getting this attention from her. First thing, I want that everything will remain totally secret between the two of us since we are both married. I want to know for sure if she is attracted to me because while her body language says so she has not confirmed to me in worlds. I would love to have some intimate time with her secretly. Even if sex is not possible I don't want to lose the attention from her."

For a lot of men in your situation, I suggest that they also look into their marriage. The desire to gain the affection of another woman is a reflection of the problem in their own marriage. Feeling that other women find them attractive or love them makes them feel better about themselves and boosts their ego. Generally that is good but it becomes a serious problem when they lose interest in their wives and replace it with gaining acceptance from other women. That is what motivates men to have mistresses or engage in extramarital affairs.

If knowing that this woman has a soft corner for you makes your life easier, just tell her how you feel. I am yet to meet a woman who did not like a man telling her that she is beautiful and he is attracted to her.

It would also be good if you can give her small gifts that are not so obvious, that are small in value (she will find it difficult to hide an expensive gift and may struggle to find an explanation but can easily come up with an explanation for a lipstick or perfume). I think as you express your feelings for her, she might cooperate with you in finding private time with her.

I must warn you, though, that this maybe exciting but is unlikely to solve your problems with stress in your life. As a real man, you will need to deal with those head-on. As I tell my readers, if your job is bad, then, find another one, or if you are in ill health, get some exercise and eat healthy. Having a female friend does nothing to solve these problems. I support your decision to enjoy her company for its own sake but just don't associate the two.

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