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Sarah
writes, “I have always been
fascinated by women. I am thinking of turning
bisexual (all guys that I have dated have been such
disappointment) with a woman and I need some help on the
decision. What is a
relationship like with another woman? And, I know
this sounds ignorant, but how do you
please one another? My
girlfriend
and I have been considering this choice for a while but
for me at least, it is a hard one to make. The thought
of
touching another just sounds weird. Simply because I
have the same body parts. Then again, it could be very
pleasurable (I have very
sensitive parts) because most men I have been with
just grab my body and squeeze it really hard, which ends
up hurting. I would hope most women know that
pain. If I do decide to have
sex with a
woman, is a toy necessary? I would think you could
stimulate your partner with your hands and mouth but do
most
bi women want penetration? Oh yeah, I have had
sex with a
man before so it's not like it's my
first time, I just assume the experience would be
very different. I'm just asking because I want to know
if both people achieve an
orgasm (I myself don't get one with a man).”
Is this a good idea?
You are like a
virgin it seems when it comes to
same-sex relationship and that is the way you should
behave. There is no way to describe certain things no
matter how good you are as a writer and that is true for
sex. The way you discover
sex with a
man - since every man is different - you also
discover sex with a woman - and every woman is
different too. In answer to your question, of course it
feels awkward to touch another person’s body (even of a
different gender) and unless you are
attracted to other women sexually you may not like
it - most straight men I know of do not like to see
other
naked men and just find it repulsive to even
think about them sexually, what to say of touching
them.
Sex is no different with another woman - it is just
another person who just happens to be more like you and
understands you (I would not say better) but in a
different context. I am, however, disappointed to hear
about your bad
experiences with men - not all men are like what you
have met so please do not give up on men as yet. I do
not think that a
massager or toy is necessary but some women like it
just for the variety that it provides but you should
think about it only later - it is too early for you to
do that.
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First find out if you like to
be
intimate with a woman and then only you
should think about the toys. Regarding
penetration, nothing works like a natural object
but of course tongue and hand can do a good job
if you know how to do it right. The point is not
if penetration is important - it is how you
enjoy yourself and then deciding what you need. |
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