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Rocco
has a
casual relationship with a married woman but he is
not entirely happy with the way things are going. He
writes, "I am
making her jealous right now by
going out with other women and always mentioning my
bedroom
conquests to her because I can't tolerate her
unpredictable behavior anymore. She doesn't seem stable
to me. She breaks up with me but then calls me a week
later begging me to
make love to her. I think it is now my turn. I am
not her boy toy. Going forward, I will not pick her
calls for a week, even if she
dumps
me. I don't care; now my heart is very strong. It is
just that I am taking a risk. I never wanted to do this
but I've to do it. What do you say?"
Any
married woman who is dating and having
sex with another man (and for all we know she might
have other boyfriends like you) is definitely
somewhat
unstable.
My recommendation is that if you like her company and
enjoy sex
with her, go on with your life (get
a girlfriend,
get
married, do whatever you want) but do nothing to
make her angry or get upset by her behavior. That way
whenever she wants you, you can still go and have fun
with her. I do not see a
future for
this relationship so rather than
getting too emotional about it and reacting strongly
the best approach is to enjoy what you get and do not
get emotionally involved in this relationship. In
other words, I see nothing wrong with you being a boy
toy for her because for you too she is just a
toy --
if you believe that this
woman will leave her marriage and spend the rest of
her life with you, it is highly unlikely. |
