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Maurice
is a
married man with his eyes on his
wife's
best friend. He writes, "On one hand her gestures
appear unusually warm but on the other hand what if I'm
reading the damn thing wrong.
What if she likes me a wee bit more than she
likes
husbands of other friends, or from where she comes
this much proximity is considered normal? Her husband is
a pretty relaxed guy, one who has given his wife freedom
of sorts and perhaps looks at these things with a
different perspective which is bound to reflect in her
interactions as well. It's pretty difficult to know
where she stands and what she wants or how she will
react if I drop any hints, for all I know she feels
elated and acknowledges my moves but then simply walks
up to my wife and tells her what a creep I am. Yes, the
excitement of meeting her and getting to spend some time
with her is pretty intense, even I don't know how far
will it go and what will come out of it, but I'm trying
and handling this entire thing very delicately, like I'm
handling some sort of an explosive which can go off in
my face if I make a wrong move. I will see her this
weekend for a
dinner with other
couple
friends is on the cards which might happen anytime
soon although I would look forward to some but I guess a
couple of hours in a group with extreme focus on every
little thing will make any signal hard to come by. Any
tips, however, are welcome!"
Why married women are afraid to flirt?
I am glad that you realize that you
are playing with fire because eventually all
cheats
get caught. It is nearly impossible to have anything
long-term without leaving some evidence behind or just
raising a suspicion, which results in a
spouse digging up for clues. That fear is driving
her behavior.
Women understand this better than men
because they are
distrustful by nature and know
how men are. One possible scenario is that the way
you dream about her and get a kick out of being in her
presence, she does too, and she is comfortable with
that. She does not want to do anything to
jeopardize her marriage and her current behavior,
while it make your
wife a tiny bit jealous and watchful, is not
inappropriate. I wouldn't be surprised that the two
ladies might even joke about it (I strongly suspect,
though, that she will spill the beans on you unless she
definitely does not want anything and you force yourself
on her).
I think the forthcoming dinner is an opportunity to look
for clues that could confirm what you noticed last time.
Are you still more important to her than other men?
Those are the signs that you want to watch out for.
So
keep your eyes on her body language and choice of
words. |
