| Vanessa
writes, "I
enjoy the act of lovemaking with my husband a lot
but it is the process that bores me out sometimes. Maybe
it is my
vaginal dryness that I have noticed since I started
taking Depo Provera contraceptive injection. Even after
I stopped it my body has never been the same. Sometimes
the desire comes back but mostly
I have no
interest in intimacy. I used to
watch pornography but I stopped it too because it
makes me
masturbate and I feel very guilty after it. I am in
good health and I am not
depressed. I enjoy
having fun with my husband and am not always
exhausted at bedtime. Or maybe it is my husband who
isn't doing it right. I can't remember when was the last
time I
kissed my husband. He once complained while we were
in the act about the smell of my mouth and since then I
can't get myself to
kiss
him again. I need serious help. I
love my husband and I don't want
problems in our marriage."
Libido can be lowered by birth control drugs
Like many other drug-based
birth control options, Depo provera shots
lower libido. Maybe you need to discuss this with
your doctor and switch to something else. Condoms are a
great choice since they are drug free.
Since you
enjoy watching porn, I will encourage you to go back
to watching it.
Masturbation is very healthy for the body. There are
also several studies that show that the more we
engage in sexual activity, the more the
sexual desire. There is no reason for you to feel
guilty. Trust me,
women who masturbate desire
sex more
often and
get better orgasms when they
have sex.
And if your husband was doing it right all along, I
cannot imagine what could he be doing wrong now, unless
he has
gained weight and is unable to move his body too
much. In that case you need to discuss this with him and
try different position.
Regarding bad smell in the mouth, you should discuss
this with a
dentist, because you may have a dental infection
that can be easily treated. Apart from that, always
brush your
teeth at least twice daily, if not after every meal.
Floss them, and use the back of your brush to wipe your
tongue. And then use Listerine afterward. I also want to
emphasize that you
avoid constipation and try not to eat food with
strong flavors like garlic or asparagus. |
