| Summary: Read below the
tragic story of a newly wedded woman whose
husband has simply stopped making love to her right
after their wedding. She is making desperate
efforts to make their
marriage as normal as possible, but the man refuses
to cooperate. Following that are tips on what she
can do be a normal wife. |
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writes, "I have been
married for just upwards of
four months, and nothing I try seems to
stimulate my husband to
make love to me. I have
done
indoor picnics, worn
sexy teddies, and even
once, when he came home, I was wearing nothing
but one of his
long flannel shirts. Nothing
seems to work on him, no matter what I try, or
how hard I try it. I have started wondering
whether or not he even
finds me attractive. When
we do
have sex, I
initiate it, and on the seldom
occasion that he initiates it, I do it, even if
I am not in the mood, because I don't know when
the next time it will be. I just need some help
to understand what is wrong with me or him. I
have never needed help before with other men,
but my husband is the one man for whom nothing
works. Please help me. We did have
sex before
marriage and it was normal. If I can say, it was
actually better than most of the
sex we have had
since our wedding. I knew him for about 3 months
before becoming
engaged. We met on somewhat
irregular terms during our dating phase. We met
on an
online dating site and I felt a very
strong connection to my husband from the
first
time we met. And I still feel that same thing,
though it's probably much stronger. It's just
the
intimacy that is totally gone. He's told me
it takes a lot to start him up. I'm sort of
caught in a catch-22 situation. He can't find
the words to tell me what he likes, but I can't
do what he likes until he tells me. And I have
tried everything. It is really making me feel
like I'm doing something wrong. I just want my
husband to let me please him. I want to
be a
wife, in theory and practice. But he won't let
me." |
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 This is a very delicate and
perplexing situation but I just responded to another
woman, whose
husband suddenly would not have any sex
with her, even though they knew each other for a long
time when they got married and had
normal sex for a
while. He always finds the perfect excuse now to
avoid
sex to a point that this woman wanted my input on if she
should have sex with a man in a
sexless marriage
himself, that she has
met through the Internet.
Over the next few days, I want you to think about and
investigate a few things. What I want you to do is to
observe for things like: |
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I am sure that if it is one of these
cases, then you have some thinking to do regarding the next
course of action, that may involve talking to him and
preferably
seeking the help of a counselor to work through this.
If it is none of these and a full medical checkup results in
no health complications, then, it is most likely that he has
fallen out of love with you and
feels no
desire for you.
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