| Breanna
writes, "I feel like
always
having sex. Is this abnormal? If yes what can I do
to decrease the
libido?"
Sexual
desire varies by person and most people suffer from
low libido
and
libido takes nosedive after 40 for many women and
men. Most
couples in stable, long term relationships have sex 2-3
times a week, while some
couples have it more often and many actually have it
much less frequently and a small number lives in
sexless relationships. Obviously, if there is a
difference in how many times one
partner
wants sex and the other does not, there is a
problem. In that case,
couples should really resolve this difference in a
manner that makes no one pressured and both
partners satisfied; if not, this can cause a lot of
friction in a marriage and may result in
adultery or
men
finding a mistress.
There
is no such thing as too much sex
How often do you feel like having sex? Every day?
Several times a day? Are there certain times of the
month that the desire is more than others?
Does your
partner give you sex every time you want it? If that
is the case, then there is no need to do anything
because there are no
side effects of
frequent
sex. If he cannot, then, you might
try
masturbation every time you
feel like having sex, and that way you will not be
sexually
frustrated and be able to
orgasm when you want.
Honestly, there is no safe way to lower
libido for
a woman without hurting her
hormonal balance and that is why I am strongly
opposed to it. What I would suggest is that you try to
stay as busy as possible during the day and try to
exercise regularly so that you
get
exhausted by the end of the day and
go to sleep without
pining for sex every night. |
