 While style gurus might convince you
to always use nipple covers, especially if you are
going
braless, there are occasions when you can actually just
do the
total opposite to
attract the attention of men. Ronald,
one of my readers, has the following advice to
women who
are trying to attract men.
"Whoever decided that females need to hide their
nipples, needs to wake up to the real world. It is a
known fact that men prefer to see a
female wearing tops
that show it all. We're not living in the Stone
Age any
more nor are we in the fifties when religious taboos
dictated what not to show. In our every day
world today, it is fully acceptable for
women to go
braless, regardless of the
size of her breasts, or to
wear
bras that are thin which allow the nipples to
protrude and show. Don't let the prudes decide what is
"acceptable." Be yourself and be proud to show your
attributes, you will definitely turn heads and I
mean in a good way. Fashion trends have switched over
the years letting women have the freedom to wear whatever
they enjoy, so why not allow yourself the
freedom to show your nips through thin fabrics. Here is a
tip from men: the more you show, the more they will
observe, and isn't that what fashion is all
about? Another hint: a
contrasting color bra under a
thin or silky blouse or dress (the way Sarah Dunn did
for a Lynx Boost shower gel commercial) will catch any man's eye
and you can hold that stare for as long as you
want. There isn't a man in this world who doesn't
appreciate eye candy.
 Another myth that has been pushed onto women is the idea
of hiding or getting rid of
panty lines. Every man loves
to look at a
woman's derriere and see the
shape that her
panty outlines. They are looking for the
"heart" shape that her
panty lines reveal. Without the
telltale panty lines, men are disappointed
because they can't envision your bottom and therefore
you lose their attention. It's all about what you show
under your outer clothing that makes men pay
attention. Tight skirts and tops
may show your shape,
but it's what is caressing those curves both top and
bottom under those skirts and tops that make men
want to feel and touch those special places.
(Related:
Shibue Couture gstring)
Those sexy bras and
panties are the "attention getters,"
and are your assets, so why not use them to your
advantage. Here's a test you can try and see if I'm
not correct in these statements. Put on
red or black bra
and
panties, topped by a white thin top and a tight
pencil skirt with either heels or flats. No
stockings or
pantyhose. Go
shopping at the mall and
pretend you are looking in the store windows while
focusing on the reflection behind you. I'm willing to
bet that every man that sees you will continue to look
at your backside. He'll be looking to see if he can
detect the "heart" shape of your derriere. If your
nipples are protruding through your
bra, he'll take
instant notice and you can have the pleasure of knowing
that it is you he is observing. So all in all,
you can have more power than you realize when you stop
listening to all the foolishness of ridding yourself of
panty lines (it seems that this whole
VPL
conspiracy has been hatched by
lingerie manufacturers so
that they can push certain type of
underwear to you). Be
proud of your physical assets and be happy
to show them off. You'll feel better about yourself than
you ever imagined. |
