| Mindy
writes, "I
have very small breasts. Although I have a very
supportive husband, I still feel inadequate. As a
woman it
has affected me feeling comfortable enough to
enjoy myself in an intimate situation. I can't
afford the
breast enlargement surgery and have been unable to
find any other solution. It's not my
hubby being attracted to me that I worry about; I'm
the one who has the issue how do I get to a place to
feel comfortable with what I look like without clothes?
And if I can't, then is there any help for girls like
me?" |
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I am
glad that you have not tried
any
other solution than plastic surgery because
science has no solution yet. My initial reaction is
that if your
husband married you knowing what he was getting into
and if he has not complained then he is fine with your
body and if he does not care, then why should you worry.
I have heard from so many
men who
tell me that they love women with small breasts
(they do not
sag with
age) and it is wrong to assume that all
men like
big breasts.
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So my
suggestion will be that to look good in certain outfits, you
can wear a
padded bra, but when you
undress, then the only way to feel good is to
tell yourself
everyday that you are beautiful the way you are. The way
Nature gave you your skin/eye/hair
color or shape of your face or
height, it
also gave your
breast
size. I know how you may feel conscious when you are
without clothes in bed, one secret that many women like
you have shared with me is that instead of
wearing just an ordinary tee shirt or any other
nightwear,
they wear
something sexier, like a
sheer babydoll or
lace chemise. |
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| Related:
How to
look sexy if I have small breasts
I feel
guilty after sex
Confessions of an insecure woman
Alesha Dixon in nightwear
Self esteem
tips for flat chested women book |
