Ron
suspects that a
married
woman that he occasionally helps on a research
project is attracted to him. He writes, "Here is a list
of things that I noticed the last couple of times I have
seen her. A few families gathered at her mom's house for
lunch on a holiday. My wife (yes, I am married) and my
friend's wife
were
wearing pink but she was wearing
white. So I commented how these two ladies looked nice
in pink. In the evening, the same people met at a
different place for dinner and I found her
wearing pink
this time (apparently she made up an excuse to go home
and change). I made sure that she knew I noticed her so
I commented on her
outfit. Another time, we were
watching a
comedy on television. Every time there was
something to laugh she was looking at my eyes directly
and smiling. I
smiled back each time so that she knew I
found it funny too. There were few other people in the
room too and she made
eye contact with others too, but
she made eye contact with me for at least 7/8 times.
Actually she never hesitated to make eye contact with me
during the last 8 years; it was me who avoided it with her because we are
both married and I never
imagined that such a
sexy woman would like me. But this time I did
not. She is very friendly to all, she is very
confident,
and she is highly ambitious. She does the same things to
me and I guess to all but I never really noticed. But my
feelings changed when I was alone with her in her living
room couple of times helping with her project. As is
often suggested, she didn't fidget with her fingers or
use hands to touch herself around her
mouth/face/eyes/ears. Do you think there is any
possibility that she is
drawn to me or I am confusing
her of amiable personality as
romantic interest. Is
there any way I could
turn them into attraction
for me?
What is her body language really saying? I now
like this
woman and am willing to cheat."
I
think, based on her
body language and actions, she
definitely has a soft corner for you and likes you (for
all we know she could be really
unhappy with her
husband) but is hesitant to say/do anything considering
that you two have no privacy and
both of you are married
and constantly surrounded by family members.
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Now let me ask you what is it
that you really want? Do you just want to know
(and maybe hear from her) that she is attracted
to you and possibly loves you? Would you like to
kiss (secretly) her?
Have sex (secretly) with
her? Ask her to
divorce her husband and marry
you? |
If it is something
casual and fun that
you are looking at, I would say go ahead and
charm
her
starting with
flirtatious behavior and maybe giving her
a small
gift when you get a chance. I would not
recommend that you try to
seduce her due to the nature
of the relationship. If she welcomes your moves,
over time you might
gain her trust and maybe able to
make love to her as she makes it possible.
Related:
Great
pickup lines |
