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I
am so often asked what does it take to get to the core
of a
Japanese woman. The question clearly assumes that
there is something unique about her and it is not easy.
While it is hard for me to go inside the mind of a
non-Japanese woman, I can at least share what would
it take to get inside my mind, and hopefully, this will
give some insights into the
minds of Japanese women even though I strongly
believe that each individual on the planet is unique and
each one of us has to treat that person special and in a
unique way to get to the core of someone's heart. A lot
of men are also under the wrong impression that the
problems that they have had with other women will for
some reason not occur with
Japanese women simply because the
Japanese women are so accommodating.
Charles, a friend
of mine from California, writes to me, "I saw your
writings and I was amazed. You are a very open person
with your
emotions. I find you to be exciting yet refreshing
due to the fact that I to feel much the same way in many
respects. My friends and family tell me I have to be
the pickiest man when it comes to women. When I
meet a
woman or I
go out with a woman I quickly find that they just
aren't a match for me and I quickly become bored in my
endeavor. The relationship seems pointless then. The
result is I have become a bit skeptical about the
intentions of
love and sex. Do not get me wrong. I do fall victim
to the "Oh she is so beautiful!" syndrome that is so
common among people my age (I am 20) but after that
I
feel very empty.
I have found that
not very many people are open about what they feel, as
you and I. I tend to be very open, especially with
women about my views on
love, sex
and relationships. That is the reason I am still
currently not in a relationship. I will tell you right
now, your beauty is not the reason I sent you a
letter. It is your experience I require. Your mind
through your writings seems to me to be a wonderful
asset, such as gold or diamonds ready to be tapped for
knowledge. When I read your articles I immediately
needed to speak with you like some kind of cosmic force
to be reckoned with your personality drew me in. The
reason my family and friends call me picky is that I
only am attracted to intelligent, kind, sexy,
beautiful Japanese women that are open about their
sexual desires and
romantic feelings, toward me or anyone else. You
match this requirements exactly." |
