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Kevin
writes, "I am a
happily married man and am not looking for
casual sex
with just anyone (I
travel a lot and
have plenty of money to hire someone if I was so
desperate, but have never
cheated on my
wife yet), but
I
want a relationship with a woman that I see
occasionally as part of our extended social network. I
want her and only her and if it's not happening I don't
want to become an
adulterer. It may take months to get to it but
that's OK although from where I am standing I would wish
it happens ASAP but I'm willing to wait till it
materializes. I recognize that it may take months to
barely know where she is at or whether she wants the
same things I want (she has shown no hints whatsoever
but she has definitely stolen my heart by virtue of her
warm and
friendly personality). I will definitely
notice her body language the next time I meet her,
but there is however a little problem which I don't know
how to handle - how to see her more often, without
making my or her spouse suspicious? I do hope she
notices that I want more from her than just pleasantries
and I'm sure she will not have regrets."
Tips to spend more time without
raising eyebrows
I know men and women who have been
able to do so and maintained lifelong
friendships with benefits (they are far more common
in France).
Regarding improving prospects of being able to see her
more often, without making anyone smell something fishy,
here are some ideas and you can make them appear if they
are your wife's or that of your heartthrob's husband's:
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