| Carl
writes, "After her divorce, my
mother-in-law has been spending a lot of time at our
home. My wife appreciates her being around since she
watches the kids when we are not home and often has
dinner ready when we
come home tired in the evening. However, I get this
feeling that there is another reason for her to spend
time at our home than just being with her grandkids. She
pays more attention to me than a
woman
would do to her son-in-law. It almost seems to me
that she
wants to seduce me. I mean I am not complaining. I
have always had this thing for
mature women and at 58, she looks
fit and
dresses
very tastefully. Many people confuse her as the
elder
sister of my wife. And as
proud she is of her curves, she does not shy away
from
flaunting them in a bikini supposedly
playing
with the kids in the pool. The other day when I was
going to the
master bedroom, I looked up at her room and she was
in front of her door in her
panties.
She tried to hide her
pubes by putting her
tights in front of her. But she didn't move or close
the door. I also remember that many times she stands
just a few inches in front of me with my face right in
front of her
ample chest or
big butt.
I have also seen that when I come back in the evening,
her
floral print bras and
tiny thongs are lying around in the family room or
right on top of the counter in the
bathroom where I am bound to see them. I get so
confused by this sometimes that I just stay away from
her but that seems to have created some problems because
she looks angry and upset with me. She has also said
some unflattering things about me to her daughter and my
wife does not think that I am a
good dad or treating her as I should.
What does this woman want? Does she
want to seduce me or is it just her liking a
younger
man noticing her? I asked people close to me about
it and I mostly get a tip that I should touch her
butt
and see what happens. Recently I have started
complimenting her body and even casually commented 'nice
bra' when I found one on the sofa as I sat down to
watch TV, she seemed lightened up and praised me in
front of my wife. I don't know what to make of it and
what is the right response from me?"
Can a woman be attracted to her
daughter's husband?
Honestly,
I don't agree with your friends that you touch her
butt
and see what happens. Remember that she is your
mother-in-law and while you may be the lucky man who
gets to
have sex with both
mother
and daughter, considering that she is probably close
to her daughter and does not
keep
secrets, it might also mean the end of everything.
In other words, this approach is risky and not subtle.
I would like you to be friendly and warm to her from now
on and appreciate her
seductive efforts. I wouldn't be surprised that she
will warm up to you if she sees that her efforts are
appreciated -- maybe she does want to sleep with you but
has been frustrated because you were
so cold to her. No
woman is disappointed if a
younger
man notices her, and I don't know
how she looks, but if a
woman has the confidence to dress the way she does,
in her heart she probably believes that she is a
sex bomb.
Where does your wife stand on this? Is she a bit cool
about it or was she really offended when her mom
complained about you? I wouldn't be surprised that your
girlfriend notices her
naughty
outfits in the house and knows exactly what her mom
is trying to do. Either she is an accomplice in this or
does not mind it because she is open minded and her
mother has done it in the past. |
