Denise
writes, "I am eighteen and
very tight down there. When my
boyfriend and I have sex he tears me or I hurt him.
We've tried
other
forms of sex but I like the
emotional connection of
vaginal
sex. Is there a way to loosen me up or at least some
positions that won't hurt so much?"
At your age every girl is very tight and if your
boyfriend has a big penis then it might hurt
somewhat but if it is painful, then it simply means you
are not doing it right. I agree with you that oral or
anal sex are fine to
bring variety to your sex life, there is no
substitute for vaginal
sex.
I also want you to know that while the
vagina
might appear to be tight and small, the reality is
that it is the most flexible part of the body (remember
that it stretches enough to
let a baby come out). The reason it maybe hurting
you is that you are not engaging in enough
foreplay to
naturally lubricate your vagina that will make
penetration easier. Girls take a bit longer to get
ready for penetration so tell your
boyfriend to wait a bit till you feel ready. You can
also use a lubricated condom or
apply a gel to your vagina just before he enters
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