 Johnny
writes, "I have been guessing the signs/intentions of a
particular woman. Before I discuss the
flirts/actions of this woman, I think you should
know the background. This woman is a
friend of my wife, whom I have two kids with. My
wife and her friends have a weekly get-together to have
a
casual dinner. My
wife's friend is married and has two kids of her
own. Her husband, whom I have only met once, does not
attend these weekly
dinners. I have always been
attracted to this woman, but have kept our
conversations short, because I do not want to make
anyone uncomfortable or come across that I am the
guy who
hits on his wife's friends. Over the last couple of
occasions, I have noticed her looking at me with a smile
quite a bit. Most of the time, we are across the room
from each other. This last week, I was in the
kitchen making small talk, while she was talking to
my wife in the living room. During our separate
conversations, we glanced at each other quite often. My
interest in her led me to go over and be a part of their
discussion. We got talking about returning something
back to her. She asked when would be good for her to
come by and get it. My wife said, "Johnny will be home
during the day over the course of the summer." This
woman responds by saying, "Just let me know when and
I'll be over to get it. Then I can take care of Johnny
and
his hot little bod." My wife agreed, "Yeah, he's
hot." Her friend agrees by saying, "Yeah, he is." At
that point I was so
turned on by this woman, but couldn't go any
further. Not with my wife there, so I left that
conversation. Later on, we had one last glance at each
other with a smile. Since then, I have been thinking of
her. I would like to
pursue her! I believe that it would be safe from our
significant others. I am at the point that I want to
know what her intentions are, if any. I would appreciate
your insight and what you recommend me doing that is
discreet and safe."In
adulterous situation, let the woman make the first move
Based on the details you have provided, it is not
conclusive what her intentions are but it is very
obvious that she is going to be an
easy woman to seduce. Remember that
girl friends often comment about each other's
partners and
conversations can get pretty naughty, including
discussions about their partner's bodies and
performance in bed.
Since the situation is delicate, this is what I would
suggest. One of these days when you are at home, and I
do not know what that thing is that you mention, but I
hope it is something that can have a good excuse. I mean
wouldn't it be awesome if it fits into a narrative. In
any case, give her a call to ask her to bring it to you
since you need it. Then, when she does come, don't get
too excited it or make a stupid or clumsy move, but be
warm, approachable and
flirtatious. In other words, that should be enough
for her to make a move (in a situation like this you
want her to make the first move because that is the only
way to make sure that you do not make a fool of yourself
and you can be assured that she will be discreet about
it and never open her mouth about it) and if you have
misunderstood her intentions completely, it will be just
a pleasant conversation. |
