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How
to keep your relationship with your husband strong?
Top
ten principles for strong relationships
It
is not easy to
find a great relationship today, but if you
are in a good relationship already or are looking to find a
wonderful relationship, it is better to know something about
men. It is well known men are different from women and
once women know what those differences are they can work
around those. If you have not read the book "Self-Made
Man" by Norah Vincent, then here are our top ten principles
for women to develop a strong relationship with their
partner, whether it be you boyfriend, husband, or just a
friend.
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Remember that
men are excited visually rather than emotionally. To appeal to his basic instincts, you should
be physically attractive to him: This means taking care of your appearance,
make-up,
perfume,
hairstyle, and voice. Fine-tune those to what you know he likes, not necessarily what the most
glamorous models are currently wearing!
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Just because men do not say so,
it does not mean that they do not love you or do not care for
you. Most men have a hard time saying sentimental things
as often as women would like to hear. So take the
initiative and say romantic things to him instead. Chances
are he will open up too and tell you exactly how he feels about
you.
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To keep him interested in you physically, you should have some independence and be
attractive to other men as well. By doing this, you will appeal to his instinct of protecting his turf and he will unconsciously want to always
keep you satisfied. But bear in mind that being attractive to other men does not mean
flirting with them!
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Appealing to his instincts, however, is not enough. You should also work on being the supporter he wants in his daily life in order to make sure that your relationship rhymes with both his unconscious and his conscious states.
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Now comes the
part in bed! You have to be extremely careful since even they might say that they are not emotional creatures, men are quite sensitive animals.
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Criticizing his performance in bed and overemphasizing what he needs to become better will usually discourage a man. Be supportive and flattering and tell him how great he is and
how he makes you feel and see him improve every day, energized by your compliments.
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Men typically don't want to be with a
woman who doesn't seem to be feeling anything, but they can be suspicious of highly vocal performances. So, enjoy yourself and be natural without overplaying your excitement.
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A man will naturally want to please you, so let him experiment and be supportive of his experiments. If you don't like something he is doing, you should be very subtle in showing it: Get him to do something else and tell him how much you like that something else rather than how much you dislike his latest experiment.
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Few men appreciate the challenge of being rejected often, and randomly. Eventually, they give up trying to approach you after you've had one headache too many!
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Finally, please note that man's desires evolve as he grows older, often for the better! In order to keep things going in the right direction, work on remaining close and understanding. Be the partner he cannot be without!
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