By Cindy Murphy
Outside school I
do not wear a bra most of time. I wear
T-shirts and think it is really cool because I
have a good body. My girlfriends think I'm
really brave to do it and my mom doesn't like it with tight tops
because it is so obvious. She thinks my 36C size is too big even though she is happy to do it with her 34B and she
is 38 years old!! But think like Emma Thompson, who says,
"I'm not a great fan of underwear, I think it's quite
I agree; it does grab attention of
the guys but this
is my body so if they are good why not flaunt them
like women do with their hair,
choose to wear. I think it is so
naïve when women say that guys will like
us only for our bodies. Of course that is important to them but
there is much more to us than just our bodies.
In my opinion, boys might get attracted if we do something
bold like that but that does not help us a lot if we want to conquer them
in the long run.
the time and age to be bold - when we are firm and look really cool doing it.
It's not as if we go crazy; actually I think it is better to
maintain both some mystery and boldness!! That is exactly what
Drew Barrymore did at the Golden Globes. (Related
of a woman who found happiness even when she had a small chest)
I always notice other women
and how they dress, particularly if they wear tight
tops. I think they look nicer
if they do not show their bra
straps under a spaghetti
top. My mom does not approve of me being sloppy and show straps like some of my girlfriends do.
This fashion of virtually letting your bra and the
showing drives our elders nuts but even I do not approve of it
since many girls look so sloppy doing it.
I would say that do what
Kirsten Dunst does. Many "analysts"
suspect that she does not wear a bra underneath her T-shirts, but
she still looks pretty cool about it.
Lindsay Lohan too has
been spotted sans bra.
So my advice to all those girls who want to wear tank tops
and spaghetti straps is this – just
leave your bra at home.
you can try using a low-cut bra rather than showing the
straps. As you will see on
the photo on the left, the girl on the left who chose to wear a
pink bra under her tank top looks sloppy while the two girls on
the right in their
plunging necklines chose not to wear bras and
look sleek. And if you
wear a white blouse to school as I do, just do nothing but wear a
black bra and notice the heads turning.
When it comes to
peek at your underwear to create some interest in others,
I would say show your panties instead because you can do it
without making it so obvious by wearing low-rise
I prefer low riders that show my panties only if I move
at a certain angle or bend. A little bit of black panty or thong is
attractive and complements my look. (Related:
Can I show my
panties under a mini skirt?)
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Eva Mendes braless
Celebrities flashing bras
Are big breasts a problem
on lingerie shopping
Lindsay Lohan no bra
Girls without panties
or without bra style tips
Can I go to work braless?
Show bra through
How to hide my
Anneliese Van der Pol braless
Blake Lively braless
Should I wear a bra at home