writes, "I am in a
relationship with a girl for past 2 months. She used
love a guy a lot but that guy was
faking that he also liked her. So one day he told
her he does not like her. Then I started dating her.
Within a month after that, the
ex boyfriend went into a
relationship with her best friend. Now my girlfriend
says that she is
to forget him and she does not think that she will
ever be able to. She is really
depressed nowadays. How can I help her forget him? I
am ready to
wait for her. I truly love her. Will you please tell
me what shall I be doing in this case? I don't wanna
lose her. Please help me."
Women find it more difficult to move on after being
It is not uncommon for
get too sentimental about guys and take forever to
forget even if they broke their heart. The other
downside is that then they also get very
about men in general and often
take out their frustrations and anger on the next guy.
So in some ways it is good that her ex is
best friend. That would give her enough opportunity
get jealous and angry -- hopefully that means that
forget him faster.
If this girl is worth all these months of waiting and
dealing with her
depression, and nonstop
conversations about her ex, then, you should simply
be patient and supportive. Don't push her to do anything
but be there for her. Time is the best healer. I am
confident that eventually she will see that her
ex was a
mean guy and you are a good, trustworthy man. That
should lead to a
solid relationship with you.