to be an attractive woman
and advice on being attractive and hot........By Pierre
So how can
I be an attractive (we are primarily focusing on physical
attractiveness here but will also deal with attitude) woman? My female clients invariably ask me that question because their hypothesis is that if they want to
get the guy they
want, they have to be good looking (because apparently men like all attractive
women). Well, it is not always true. The way it is not true that all
women like rich and
successful men (even if they don't look so good), it is also not true that all men like
hot women. In fact some
men are intimidated by very
pretty women and feel that they may not be able to keep up with
them in bed, or that she is more likely to be hit on by other
men and thus more prone to cheat, or that she might
draw more attention than them.
||Having said that, I still think that
being an attractive
woman, if not necessarily
hot, is a plus in most cases. Several studies show that not only in the area of
relationships, but women with good looks (even men for that matter) have an edge in almost all other areas of life, for example, professional advancement, being able to
do business deals, and
even getting better tables in a restaurant.
Being able to convert an
'average' persona to a 'attractive' persona is only a matter of change in attitude and
style. In fact, I encourage my clients to have a dual persona:
a professional persona for professional and social settings while a hot persona for romantic settings.
Believe it or not,
this is relatively easy. In my opinion, it is simply having a few attributes in your persona that
attract someone's attention. Now some women are simply blessed with
natural beauty and will draw attention no matter what. For instance, you might have nice flowing hair or
beautiful eyes or
pouty lips or
shapely body - anything that other people notice because it looks good on you.
just take the right steps to make them look better. It
is always easy for anyone to dress in a trendy
style (and remember that it does not necessarily mean expensive) but the really clever women take what is not so attractive but can be turned into something really attractive by emphasizing it. For instance, even average
lips can be made to look great with the right
They can simply match and mix outfits to look as if they
shop every day.
The third approach is showing
a great attitude. Remember, more than anything else, we all like to 'feel good'. Thus, if anyone around us can create that feeling, it does not matter how physically
is or not. What I mean here is that women who are extremely cheerful, pleasant, sweet,
funny, attentive, interesting, or charming will be considered
desirable by almost anyone. As Sarah Paul, the author of the guide for women called
"How to be irresistible to
men" writes, "Being irresistible to men is simply changing your behavior in ways that men will like everything about you. By merely learning how to dress, look feminine, and
flirting the right
way, you will have men drooling over you."
How can I be
sexy for my husband?)
More than anything else it is the
attitude that makes one hot.
Of course, wearing sexy
outfits is always
desirable (as our model on this page shows). So if you do not have the body of a movie star, you need not worry. In fact my male clients have often confirmed that a drop-dead gorgeous woman without the attitude is in no way 'hot'. On the other hand even an average looking woman with the right attitude can be very hot.
So how do you get the attitude? As
Masini, always advises, "Fake
it!" With time you will get better at it and it will come to you as second nature. In fact you will be able to completely transform your personality over time. Men also like
that give them a
challenge. Someone who is constantly challenging them in a teasing manner - so she still maintains that man-woman relationship balance but gives just the right amount of stimulant to a man to make him want her by beating her at her own game. Finally, keep an open mind. Be adventurous. If you close your mind and have too many
hang-ups, you will be considered boring, dull, and frigid. You do not have to necessarily do anything that you do not like to do or compromise your values
in any way, but as long as you are ready to talk about anything in a frank manner, men will appreciate your attitude and even respect it.
Recommended links: How
to attract men? How
to be attractive to men?
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