Nancy writes, “I always thought it was us women who liked to the center of attention and pampered by our men. I have had some interesting experiences with a man recently who is so charming, but a player. He never has time for me, but when he does, he takes me to cloud nine. So the other night, I decided to just hang out with him, really communicate with him, and bond with him without sex. Is it correct that men appreciate this sort of treatment from women? I used to think all men wanted was sex but now I am in doubt.”
Yes, absolutely, men might start off by wanting sex with every woman, but eventually you have to have a connection that goes beyond action in the bedroom. If I don’t like spending time with a woman, she is not a great companion, and if she is not my friend, the relationship will not be a solid one. Yes it may last simply because of the fun I am having, but those aren’t real relationships — I might get bored soon and move on.