Making a relationship stronger through intimacy
Story of a woman in her 30s to find the man of her dreams

By Nancy Ryder

Women are programmed to please our men and our pleasure is supposed to come from theirs. We are not supposed to just please ourselves. Over time, we become too good at pleasing others and so consumed by it that almost fail to appreciate our own needs. Many of my girlfriends later told me that both women and men develop rather strange behaviors due to these traits.  (Related:  Britney Spears in bed)

I could feel Don’s tongue on my inner leg now and it was one of those moments when I thought I had had enough. I felt I could not stand straight anymore. I now wanted Don’s tongue inside me and I helped him by moving the front of my thong to the left side giving him complete access to my innermost parts. Don immediately complied. I was starting to realize what power could do to a woman. The harder he inserted his tongue, the more difficult it became for me to behave like the woman I had known myself to be prior to this morning.  (Related:  How to turn a woman hot)

I guess I came at least three times before I could realize what was happening to me. At that point, I just moved away and collapsed on the sofa with my head in Don’s lap. I hid my face close to him and I could clearly feel what we both had gone through. I had no more energy left even to breathe. Don did not say a word either. We just stayed quiet as I recovered from this intense experience. I would have very much liked Don to stroke my hair but his hands were still tied and I had no intention to release them.  (Related:  First time sex)

When I moved my face up after about 15 minutes, Don was calmly admiring me. He just smiled and asked if he could get a glass of water. I was feeling guilty already but also a surge of pleasure as I realized how weak Don was in front of me. His intellect that had always made me feel inferior did not matter to me anymore. I was also wondering if Don was enjoying this since he did not even once ask me to set him free. 

I dropped a few cubes of ice in a glass and filled it up with water. I had to put the glass to his mouth so he could drink it. As he drank, he grabbed a cube in his mouth and gestured me to kiss him. With the ice cube in his mouth and his lips and tongue almost frozen I kissed him again. The cold sensation ran through my body as we both played with the ice cube. At one point he was successful in pushing the cube in my mouth and I just could not handle it so I pushed it right back. I guess we must have been too hot by then because the cube soon melted. I liked this game. 

I had some idea what physical intimacy between a couple was but this playful part of Don’s style made it out to be so much more fun. If this was it, I could have it 24 hours a day, I thought. 

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