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How
can I make myself attractive to a Japanese
man? I want to
lose my virginity to a Japanese man.
I would love to date a cute Japanese guy.
These are the requests that we have received from women all over
the world. Are Japanese men
suddenly hot? Yes.
The positive image of Japanese that has now been built by the media
is paying off. Lynn is
infatuated with Japanese guys, I am in love with one of my
Japanese friends. I met him last year in Japan when I was a summer
exchange student at his high school. We hung out a lot while I was there.
After I left, we kept in touch by sending emails from time to time. A few
months ago, I had the chance to go back there and I got to spend time with
him too. He expects us to meet again. We are just friends now because of
the distance, obviously. But I still can't help but think of him every
day. To me, he is the epitome of masculine beauty and has a personality to
match. No other guy I've gone out with even compares.
(Related article: How
to restore your virginity?) |
 In
the past the image of Japanese men was defined by executives who seemed to
have taken over the business world in the 80s.
They were perceived as snobbish, rude, and too absorbed with
business. Most women who met
them at business meetings found them to be dull, boring, and not
interested in anything beyond work in fact, even their golf outings
seemed to be an extension of business.
(Related article: Tips
for American women in Asia to find a relationship)
The
second image was of Japanese men in large groups traveling to Southeast
Asia to engage in some nasty actions. Several
establishments in poor countries catered exclusively to these visiting salarymen.
In Japan, they were openly accepted as a small reward for the
sacrifices made by their male employees.
In the complex accounting systems followed by Japanese companies,
some of these trips were simply treated as entertainment expenses during
business development trips. Many
Japanese men were accused of being pedophilic or outright brutal behavior
against hapless women hailing from the poorest sections of the societies
in The Philippines and Thailand.
(Related article: Story
of a foreigner woman who dates a Japanese man who does not want to commit)
The
bubble economy is over and Japan is back to a more real world. The economic growth is so slow that even during a 9 to 5 job,
there is not enough to do the result being layoffs and early
retirements. The impact on
the overall society is positive. Since
there is a lot more time, people are spending more family time.
Men are now enrolling in classes where they can learn something new
and pursue their interests beyond work and golf.
Dark blue suits are no longer needed many companies encourage
casual clothing if no customer meetings are scheduled. Overall the Japanese men are a different breed in a matter of
years. Angel finds Japanese
men to be well dressed and fashionable, I like Japanese guys
that have Tomahome-hairstyle (fushigi yugi series), with red or
blonde highlights and puppy dog eyes, and they set of a cool image
(leather jackets, etc." (Related:
Japanese guys black girls)
And the world is taking notice.
A large number of foreign women now think that Japanese men are
cool and they would like to get to know the man behind the faηade,
especially guys like
Masi
Oka.
Ruth Follos seems to have the perfect reason to date a
Japanese man, I think Japanese men are very hot. I also know I would never want to be in a serious
relationship with an Asian guy because of their infidelity, makes them
even more desirable (Commitment
phobic Japanese men) because I would just be with them for one thing.
To
help these women, a lot of research has been conducted by us during last
few weeks. I focused
specifically on hearing what the
Japanese men expected from non-Japanese
women.
Recommended links: How
to find a Japanese boyfriend? Obsession
with Japanese men
Desire
for intimacy with your partner
How
to approach Japanese women? |
