|One question that we continue to get from MYNIPPON
visitors relates to the inscrutable nature of Japanese people. For those people who have a chance to interact with Japanese
frequently, it becomes clear fairly soon that communication with them is
not easy. Of course, this
problem is further compounded by the fact that language problems
continue to be a major barrier. Surprisingly
even several Japanese people have written to us to say that while this
is true for non-Japanese/Japanese relationships, it is also very much
true for Japanese/Japanese relationships. (Related article: Hypnotic
is trying to address this issue by publishing several articles that
touch on these issues.
This time, MYNIPPON
brings you the
secrets of seduction in Japan.
While some of this will probably apply to Japanese men as well,
it seems that the interest is much higher in talking about seducing
is hard to define but the simplest definition is doing what it takes to
make love to someone. While
generally more willing to be seduced, it requires
to seduce a Japanese woman. (Related article:
How to minimize babe shock factor?)
Seducing Japanese women
women, in most cases, are extremely polite and this is a cultural
attribute. While accepting
a drink from a stranger in a bar or a restaurant in other countries has
at least some hidden meaning in terms of higher acceptance, in case of
Japanese women, it could very well be just a polite gesture (though
it will be resisted strongly since Japanese people do not accept favors
this means is that small things that men typically do to break the ice
in other countries do not work so effectively with Japanese women.
In fact Japanese women do not give many opportunities since they
rarely go out to meet strangers though it is changing in some cases.
If you are a Japanese, you can try hangouts of young people and
hope for some good luck. If
you are a non-Japanese, then the easiest thing to do is to participate
in all those ‘international parties’ that are held all over Japan.
The success ratio of
meeting Japanese women at these parties is much higher since the
screening process is inherent in the system: if these women did not like
foreign men they would not be there in the first place.
Many of these women actually attend these parties with the sole purpose
of finding a foreigner friend, preferably a native speaker of English,
so that they can practice their English conversation skills.
Do not be surprised if
finding a boyfriend is also a hidden motive.
not to ‘come on’ to a Japanese woman because that is not how her
mind is conditioned.
You have to almost do it without doing it, meaning that you
have to show your interest but still leave the ball in the woman’s
court. The easiest
trick is to position yourself as a serious student of Japanese
art/culture/language/music/food or anything else that she is
interested in though the language card works all the time.
sure that you praise her beauty.
Japanese society does not allow for open praise and when
non-Japanese men do it, they are welcomed since it is so refreshing
patient. Some of these
women may actually be speaking to a non-Japanese for the first time
in their lives. An
aggressive approach may scare them since Japanese men are more
subtle in their approach. While
show your genuine interest in her, give her some time to decide to
take the next step.
hypnotism. (How to
hypnotize a girl to fall in love with me?)
women will indulge in acts that they would not with a Japanese
simply because they are not Japanese.
These women are interested in non-Japanese men for the simple
reason that they can realize some of their wildest
Watch out for these women carefully.
not rush into touching, holding hands, kissing, petting, etc. unless you feel that you have the most positive signal. Remember that Japanese women do not send any direct
signals but indirect signals are easy to decipher. Some of the signs are: a dinner date on a weekend, a
date closer to your residence, a date in a less crowded area like a
park or lake, suggestive dress on a date, late night phone-calls, etc.
language is critical in understanding if she is a potential
candidate for seduction. If the hands are placed in an
inviting manner and the eyes indicate a positive disposition, you
have good signs to more forward. (Related:
language of a cheater)
Japanese women do not typically admit that they wanted ‘IT,’ you
have to help them believe it by coordinating events in a manner that
it sounds like a coincidence or an inevitable event rather than
planned. Some of the
tricks are: missing the last train, too much alcohol, carried away
by an overflow of emotions, etc.
one step at a time and while you will encounter some resistance
(mostly in words) but that is to reinforce what has already been
described previously. Remember
you have to make them feel that you want it rather than her! (Warning: Do
not be dumb either – watch carefully for signs if you are actually
forcing someone. Stop
immediately and apologize.)
areas that Japanese women believe to be most sensitive are neck,
earlobes, thighs, and tongue.
Pay special attention to the back as well.
gentle and slow and do not rush it.
Think of it like a tea
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