How to please your man?
How about some dessert tonight?

By Tom Rassiter

For his birthday, a "wife" will make a tasty meal.
For his birthday, a "mistress" will be a tasty meal.

One of the women in our research group baked her husband a "lemon cake for his birthday."  This woman admitted she was having difficulty in her marriage.  Upon further investigation we found that the man was not all that interested in lemon cake.  His love for his wife had grown cool. But his desire for a better relationship was still there.  The wife was overweight, but that did not matter to her man.  What mattered was the difference between the "wife" and the lemon cake.  She presented a cake.  He wanted her.  She was viewing the cake as her accomplishment.  We suggested that a satisfied man totally devoted to her would be a better accomplishment.  She was using the cake as a  barrier to keep some distance between them.  Yet she wanted his devotion.  We suggested she forget the cake and be his dessert herself.  If you want to have your man eating out of your hands, we suggest a change in attitude.  Attitude is everything.

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About the author:   

Tom Rassiter has conducted years of university level research and has revealed his findings in a new, easy-to-read downloadable e-book called "How To Drive Your Man Wild".  Please visit Drive your man wild  to download the book.